‘Living’ Archives
The Power of Presence
If you're a parent, you have no doubt experienced a moment or two when you wonder if you're doing the best job you possibly can. I actually believe that's a good thing, because, the way I see it, if you're actually concerned about the job you're doing, that means you care. And if you care, that's a great place to start. I think the best parents are just like the best people in any other endeavor in life. Always searching for new and better ways to do things, reading up on tips, asking questions, setting goals. A serious and [...]
Your True Best Friend, Within
How much quality time do you spend with yourself each day? Think about it before you answer. I mean, look, you're always there for you. I just can't help but wonder if you're really take advantage of that. Everywhere you go, you're right there with yourself...everything you think about, you're thinking about, it too. You follow you around like a shadow, waiting to help, whenever you give you the chance. Do you trust yourself? Would you go to yourself for advice? Do you love yourself? Do you respect yourself? Your life [...]
Life’s a Beach
I've found that life is significantly more fun, when I'm doing fun fun stuff. That's not a very deep thought, I know, but I was reminded of this simple truth this weekend. The family decided that we were going to take off down the coast, hit the beach for an entire day, have a great meal together and then shack up in a hotel somewhere instead of driving home. So, we took off. We left laptops, video games, and cell phones behind (well, okay, the cell phone were in the car) and headed for the Pacific Ocean. Now, the funny thing is, [...]
The Law of Distraction
Is the law of attraction real? Absolutely. Do I believe in it? I sure do. Has it worked its "magic" in my life? Yup. Am I consumed by it? Not a chance. You may be wondering why I would say that. Allow me to explain myself... I honestly believe that the majority of the people who can't seem to get in the groove with the law of attraction make a huge mistake when they become totally consumed by the law itself. Or the idea of the law. They completely obsess over it. LOA becomes all-encompassing, and nothing else [...]
Parental Guidance
Here's one for the parents. As I was writing for my blog this evening, I was outside enjoying a beautiful southern California evening, and watching the kids play in the pool. I am always moved when I hear my kids laughing and enjoying themselves. They are real characters, too. I consider myself lucky to be able to share in their lives, and I take the responsibility of being dad as serious as a big kid at heart can possibly take it. Inevitably, and no matter how hard I try not to be sappy, I always end up waxing sentimental when I [...]
The Will to Win
Are you willing to be extraordinary? Sounds like a loaded question, doesn't it? Well, it's not. It's actually a question that you need to ask yourself and answer, if you have any desire to become the greatest, happiest, and most successful version of YOU that's possible. Your willingness and your will power both have a whole lot to do with it. Perseverance, determination, guts, resolution, tenacity, desire and will power are the fuels that run the engine which will power you to accomplish anything you can imagine. Without [...]
Travel Plans
It's all about the journey, right? That is such an easy thing to say and such a seemingly tough one to actually live. But hey, at the end of the day, it's the truth. We'll never be perfect. In fact, if we ever get to that point where we think we've arrived, we are destined to stop learning and growing. And you know what that means... (see "If you're not growing, you're dying") So, in spite of the ups and the downs, I believe it serves all of our best interest to buy into this idea that life is truly all about the [...]
A Subtle Shift in Power
Have you ever noticed how resilient you become when you absolutely have to do something? Think about it. When you don't have any other choice but to get it done...you become one seriously persistent chick or dude! And, as a result of this, it gets done. Whatever it is that you decide has to be done will ultimately get done. And the reason is because you just don't stop until you've achieved your goal. It could be fixing the leak in your water main, finding that special pair of earrings, climbing to the top of a mountain, getting [...]
Some Words for Life
Every so often I like to share an inspirational or motivational poem that I come across, hoping that you will find it to be both timely and purposeful. I know for me, a great quote or a moving poem really motivates me to reflect on my life and look inside myself for the opportunity to learn and grow. Sometimes the words can be somewhat trivial, but even so, there is often a hidden gem in the midst of them which can, if applied, become the catalyst for amazing transformation. It sounds a little kooky, I know, but words [...]
Quality Control
The quality of your thoughts will determine the quality of your life. Sounds reasonable enough, right? So what are your predominant thoughts? And how's the quality? I guess the best way any of us can answer that question is by looking around and assessing the quality of our lives. The place we find ourselves in physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially. Where do you live? Is it where you want to live? How much jack do you have sitting in the ol' bank account? Is it as much as you want? How's your health? [...]
You’re a 10…Right Now
Is it possible that you're living your perfect life right now? I know that might seem absurd to you if you happen to be struggling in any way. In fact you might think I'm a little nuts for even asking that question. But I want you to stay with me on this one and hear me out... The reason that I've been thinking about this lately, is that I'm a huge believer in the fact that you can have anything you want in this life. You can be who you want to be, and you can go where you want to go. The universe is unlimited in potential and [...]
Your Every Day To-Do List
How would you like to hear about a four step process to achieving anything you want in your life? Sounds pretty good, right? Well, I will warn you; it sounds so ridiculously simple, that your first inclination will be to dismiss it as trivial and silly. You may also think that it sounds like the stuff in fairy tales.. I might remind you though, in fairy tales, they all live happily ever after... Seriously, you will read this and do one of three things; you will either A. Dismiss it as dumb and move on, B. Think it sounds like [...]
Let Go and Live!
One of the most tiring, emotionally draining, and energy-sapping practices that any of us can ever take part in is that of holding on to resentment. Not only does it put you in a lousy state of existence, cause you great stress, and make those around you feel uncomfortable...but it literally drains you of the strength you need to pursue your real passion and make your own life as productive as possible. I read a great quote the other day. It was about how holding onto hatred or bitterness actually ends up hurting the person doing the [...]
The Game of Life
I've got a couple of projects in the works right now, and I have to tell you, I'm pretty excited about them! In fact, I'd say I'm about as inspired and energized as I've ever been. I feel that there are really some amazing things in the works, and it's going to have a positive impact on a whole lot of people. One of things I'm doing is writing a new book. Now, I don't want to spoil anything or give away too much, but in general terms, the book has a lot to do with how we live our lives. Part of writing a book is doing research, and [...]
